Today was a little different day than those of my past. I had received a phone call from a friend in Alaska a couple of wks ago that said that she was coming today, just for a couple of hours. I was thrilled! Off the wall completely thrilled! So I put in the calendar along with everything else for the day!
9 am basketball 1:45 Sean golf 3pm birthday party sometime April coming
So this past wk, with my sister-in-law in town was a fantastic visit. I went with them to the Mystere show at Treasure Island, and one night they watched the kids so that Sean and I could go to a movie together. How nice was that? Their vacation and I get to go to the movies with my husband!! Then they left on thursday, when people leave it is always hard for me, because I never know when I will get to see them again. (This is surely something that everyone knows about that left their home town!)
This morning my phone rang at 6:07 am, my thoughts other than… my alarm clock shouldn’t go off this early… was… emergency? No one calls me this early in the morning. Yes, it was my friend April from Alaska! I was dead asleep, this was the first good nights sleep I got in the past month or so. I was so out of it, that I told her we had Taekwondo at 8:30, when it was really basketball at 9. So we made plans to have breakfast when I was… pretty much sleeping through my mumbling…
My alarm clock then went off at 6:50, good thing I fell back to sleep, because that extra little sleep was the best! We got up, got everyone ready, did the basketball game, dropped Sean back off at the house, and drove out to see April, her now 3 boys, and new hubby! I was so excited that I almost felt like I needed to drive 200 mph!! Luckily my car don’t go that fast!
I got there ( you need to know that I am not a touchy feely kind of person, not with people other than my kids and husband). I gave her the biggest hug… it was like my heart had settled. Just to have a friend near.. I really had not realized, how much a person can touch your heart in such a short amount of time.
Let me tell you who April was to me, while we were in Alaska. I worked for an insurance company, and she was one of my policy holders. I knew that she had started a day care. My at the time nanny, had just quit on me (not going into the drama right now) and April said that she would help me out, and then I started taking Jaden to her, he was almost 2 when he started with her, he was with her a little over a year. We developed a close relationship, to where I felt I could talk with her about everything. We really have not kept great contact since I have moved, in fact I had not talked with her since I had Shyla who is now almost 3, until last year when I found out she had a baby due and that she was married. Then I talked with her a couple of wks ago when she told me the baby was 5 months and she was due again in August! Time really flies, but it is great knowing that you have these special people in your lives… that leave this deep imprinted stamp in your heart. April has lived almost her entire life in Alaska, and I honestly don’t ever expect her to leave there.
We spent today by walking the kids over to MGM where I wanted to share the Lion Habitat with the kids, my kids absolutely love it every time we have been there. Then we walked back to the MGM and let them go swimming. Our time was short, but it was fantastic just catching up on the past few years.
It is amazing when you don’t talk with someone for so long, but you just are able to pick up the pieces where you left off the last time. I really have been blessed with this life that God and the military have given me. God has given me this journey, and moving around, when I honestly never would have chosen the places I have lived. He has given me friends that I never would have met, had this military life not taken me from one side of the US to the next. We don’t just meet others in the military, we meet people through our civilian jobs too. And so often the civilians that we meet, don’t really understand what it takes to impact a life like ours. I am a person that takes awhile to get to know someone, it is not easy for me to pour out my heart to someone and let them know the complete me, for the fact that I know I will move, I will leave, or… you will leave. I often wonder, as I meet and get to know someone… when I leave, or they leave, will they remember me? will they want to keep in touch with me? Will I want to keep in touch with them?
I honestly had to say Yes, to all of the above with April. And even after this visit, I can still say yes, to evey single question!
This wk, not only have I had my talk with April, but we also got a phone call from Les, a friend we had back in North Dakota that we have not seen since 2000. Sean and him pass emails a couple of times a year through work, but I have not talked with him. We just found out that he has 2 daughters the same age as ours.
So this has been a little different day than what I am used to, but I am happy to be on this great journey!